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Israel and the "Stockholm Syndrome"

In 1973, four Swedes held in a bank vault for six days during a robbery became attached to their captors, a phenomenon dubbed the Stockholm Syndrome. According to psychologists, the abused bond to their abusers as a means to endure violence. How does this play out in the Arab-Israeli conflict of today?

"The Stockholm Syndrome is an emotional attachment, a bond of interdependence between captive and captor that develops 'when someone threatens your life, deliberates, and doesn't kill you'" (Symonds, 1980). The relief resulting from the removal of the threat of death generates intense feelings of gratitude and fear which combine to make the captive reluctant to display negative feelings toward the captor or terrorist. In fact, former hostages have visited their captors in jail, recommended defense counsel, and even started a defense fund. It is this dynamic which causes former hostages and abuse survivors to minimize the damage done to them and refuse to cooperate in prosecuting their tormentors.

"The victims' need to survive is stronger than his impulse to hate the person who has created his dilemma" (Strentz, 1980). The victim comes to see the captor as a "good guy" -- even a savior. This condition occurs in response to the four specific conditions listed below:

1). A person threatens to kill another and is perceived as having the capability to do so.

2). The other cannot escape, so her or his life depends on the threatening person.

3). The threatened person is isolated from outsiders so that the only other perspective available to her or him is that of the threatening person.

4). The threatening person is perceived as showing some degree of kindness to the one being threatened.

Victims have to concentrate on survival, requiring avoidance of direct, honest reaction to destructive treatment. They become highly attuned to the pleasure and displeasure reactions of their victimizers. As a result, victims know much about their captors, and less about themselves. Victims are encouraged to develop psychological characteristics pleasing to captors: dependency, lack of initiative, inability to act, decide, think, etc. Both actively develop strategies for staying alive, including denial, attentiveness to victimizer's wants, fondness for victimizer accompanied by fear, fear of interference by authorities, and adoption of the victimizer's perspective. Hostages are overwhelmingly grateful to terrorists for giving them life. They focus on the captor's kindnesses, not his acts of brutality. Battered women assume that the abuser is a good man whose actions stem from problems that she can help him solve. Both feel fear, as well as love, compassion and empathy toward a captor who has shown them any kindness. Any acts of kindness by the captors will help ease the emotional distress they have created and will set the stage for emotional dependency of Counterproductive Victim Responses

Denial of terror and anger, and the perception of their victimizers as omnipotent people help to keep victims psychologically attached to victimizers. High anxiety functions to keep victims from seeing available options. Psychophysical stress responses develop.

The Syndrome and Israel

It is interesting to see how this relates to the nation of Israel.

According to George E. Rubin --

"After 50 years of unending conflict, most Israeli Jews seem to have concluded that the burden of maintaining their nation is just too difficult to bear. The country's secular leftist elites -- who control education, culture, the news media, and the government -- blame the Jews for the Arabs' desire to destroy Israel, and the majority seems to be afflicted with the "Stockholm syndrome": though the victims of Islamic hate, they identify with their oppressors" (Commentary Magazine, May 2000).

Writes Douglas Feith, former U.S. Deputy Secretary of Defense:

"[Many] supporters [of the Oslo peace process] -- like so many distraught battered wives -- simply cannot be persuaded that there is no romance, there is no peace process. And despite Arafat's cynicism, contempt and hostility they cannot be persuaded that their man Arafat -- their 'peace partner' -- is a gangster and a liar who is just no darn good. The whole situation is both sad and dangerous. This kind of irrationality is bad enough in a relationship between two private people. It can be disastrous if it dominates the national security policy-making of a state."

How true this is today of the many, many Israelis who fiercely defend the peace process and the right of the Palestinian Arabs to a state inside Israel despite the risk it poses to the Jews. Who can blame them? After living their lives in a sea of hatred, daily hearing the threats to complete what Hitler began, repeatedly -- every year, every month, sometimes every day -- seeing Jews killed at the hands of the threat-makers; they now are offered hope in a different future. Who can blame them for grasping at it with both hands, or for slapping away those who question "the peace"?

Paul Johnson notes that "The deception often worked because the Jews wanted to be deceived. They needed to have hope" (A History of the Jews).

The State of Israel, surrounded by the Islamic world which on a daily basis threatens its destruction and, on no fewer than three separate occasions, has planned for and carried out full-scale attempts, lives in a state of perpetual fear and anxiety. It is quite understandable that elements in its population have tried to appease, and even identify with the Islamic victimizers. This psychological response, a derivative of the Stockholm Syndrome, is not some random artifact, but an evolved survival mechanism. Historically, those that tried to appease aggressors were more likely to be spared, and those who truly identified with the aggressors, and suppressed the instinct for self-defense, personal liberty and self-respect, might be seen as being most deserving of all. Not all aggressors are made equal, however, and some do not respond well to groveling.

Different Jews, Different Responses

Ashkenazim, Jews from the European Diaspora, seem to have evolved such a strategy of appeasement as a means to pacify their Christian overlords. This strategy was often successful, as the Christians largely had no Edenistic motive for Jewish extermination. The Jewish communities would simply hand over their accumulated material possessions and agree to having been sinful, having been "bad". Such appeasement carried with it the hope of a better future, a utopian vision where the abusers would ultimately reciprocate love. A cultural, and perhaps even biological predisposition toward identification with those one feared, and self-indictment, was rewarded by survival, and its greater reproductive opportunities, during the 100 generations of the Diaspora.

Mizrakhim, Jews of the Arab/Muslim Diaspora, have not evolved such a strategy to cope with abuse [with certain exceptions]. Some have interpreted this observation as evidence that less abuse was directed at this group of Jews. However, there is substantial evidence suggesting that Dhimmis were brutalized often at the level of Ashkenazim, especially in the last 500 years. The difference between the two traumatized communities is that, for the Arabs/Muslims, self-indictment is a sign of weakness, as an exposed neck made for an easier target, and a quicker route to Paradise. Mizrakhim defended their communities when defense was possible, and tolerated such abuse only as a way to survive as a community long enough to find a means of defending against the abuse.

With the resurrection of the Jewish homeland, now behind the lines of the Islamic empire, the Ashkenazim are faced with a different kind of oppression, one for which their Diaspora experience has ill-prepared them. Their strategy of appeasement is understandably confusing to their Mizrakhi brothers who know that appeasement is impossible when Paradise through Jihad is the goal. But the Ashkenazim are driven by a response to aggression molded by 100 generations of appeasement and self-indictment in order to placate those one feared -- a response which is subconscious and instinctual, and not easily conquered.

Due to perhaps related circumstances, the Ashkenazim also distinguish themselves in Israel by being the most educated and wealthiest segment of the population. This status has given them disproportionate control over the decision-making processes, through which their instinct for appeasement dominates Israeli foreign policy. The Muslims have seized upon this opportunity to fool the Ashkenazim into thinking that what the Muslims desire is material: more land, more money, more water, more weapons, etc. History has taught most Mizrakhim something different; that material appeasement only serves to tilt the balance of power in the Muslim favor, increasing the likelihood of more Jewish massacres, and therefore Muslim ascension to Paradise. This is a concept which most western-oriented people, since they tend to assume that their own system of ethics is universal, find difficult to comprehend, and therefore more likely to reject on an emotional level.

Israel's survival, therefore, depends on individual Mizrakhi advancement and on massive trauma therapy and educational efforts directed primarily at survivors of the European Diaspora both inside and outside of Israel. Because the goal is desirable and just, we encourage you to join us in the parallel pursuit of both of these strategies.

A Phenomenon With No Parallel?

Laments the Israeli novelist Aharon Megged --

"We have witnessed a phenomenon which probably has no parallel in history; an emotional and moral identification by the majority of Israel's intelligentsia with people openly committed to our annihilation."

Dr. Kenneth Levine adds --

"Subject to persecution over many centuries, Jews have inevitably developed, and displayed in their communal life, psychological stigmata of the chronically oppressed.... Generally ignored...is a fundamental psychological response to abuse that has figured prominently in Jewish communal history not only in the Diaspora but also in Israel, among Jews living under very different social and political conditions.

"This response is one widely noted and studied in children subjected to early abuse and other traumas: An inclination to blame themselves for their misfortune. A recurrent theme in such children's comprehension of their trauma is that bad things have happened to them because they have been 'bad'.

"...A similar tendency to assume responsibility for their misfortunes and to cling to unrealistic images of transforming their predicaments by reforming themselves is a common theme among peoples subjected to abuse, and nowhere more so that among the Jews. That is, the varying responses of individual Jews and of Jewish communities to the bigotry and oppression encountered over the centuries have included a persistently recurring one of taking to heart the indictments of their persecutors and seeing self-reform as the path to relief.

"....Indeed, so powerful has been this impulse among Jews that it has not only put its stamp on life in the Diaspora but has also proved to be a potent social and political factor in Israel, among Jews no longer living as a minority or sharing the millennia-old vagaries of life in exile.

"....The mimicking by Israelis of the anti-Israeli litanies of the nation's enemies has become a prominent theme not only in particular political circles, but even more dramatically, among Israeli writers, artists, and academics.

"...(W)hat is heard is widespread repetition by Israelis of anti-Jewish and anti-Israeli indictments as well as utopian assertions of the good things that will come of Israeli reform.

"...The self-indictment and the accompanying delusions about the wonderful things that will flow from penance and reform require not only distorting or denying realities of the present. They also require ignoring or distorting the past, creating a myth of Jewish original sin, in order to define and sustain the self-indictment....An extreme form of the indictment...is that the Jews colonized Arab land, and Israel's existence is itself sinful. A less extreme and more popular form, commonly mouthed by mainstream politicians, is that the Jews have a right to their state but that there was, in its creating, an inevitable injustice done to the other people who occupy this 'one land belonging to two peoples,' and that the Jewish sin lies in Israel's not sufficiently recognizing this other claim."

Dr. Kenneth Levin is a Historian and Professor of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School.

"From the point of view of political analysis, what is of interest is the psychology of the enemies of life and the fascination they can exert" -- Jacques Givet, The Anti-Zionist Complex.

A Package of Deceit

It is hard to imagine why an Israeli would seek methods to push his nation over the cliff, but their history is replete with the sick, the aberrant, the suicidal. Perhaps, every so often they are cursed with an erratic gene which produces a twisted small child who becomes a sick twisted small adult. The Jewish people may need a gigantic Freudian couch on which to cure their distorted self esteem which has been engendered by the unremitting hostility and genocide committed upon them by many nations of the world.

Even as Jews are being attacked daily by bullets, bombs and boulders, Israel's leaders buy another package of deceit from Iran and the Palestinians thinking the Islamic world wants to live in peace with the Jewish state. As any casual reading of the Arab press will disclose, from 1948 to the present, the entire Islamic world's opposition to Israel -- including opposition of the PLO -- stems from doctrinal hatred of what is considered a "cancerous" Jewish state in its midst. Indeed, if the Palestinian opposition to Israel is only about the West Bank (Judea/Samaria) and Gaza, why were there so many Arab terrorist attacks against Israel between 1948 and 1967, when these disputed territories were in Arab hands? The deceit goes on.

How sad to see what could have been a great contributing nation march toward oblivion singing the praises of the man and his people who hate Israel with such a powerful killing passion. It is ironic that Israel, relentlessly brutalized by these people, should in the long run be their only shield and refuge and, paradoxically, the only real guarantee of their right to speak out, even though what they say runs counter to their own interests.

-- Edited by John D. Keyser.

 

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